Similarities and Differences

Self-assessments give an opportunity to learn more about yourself.  The result of scoring can give feedback to assist in becoming a better “you”.  I think the one thing that surprised me is the similarities between how I evaluated myself and how others evaluated me. I can be my harshest critic at times. In some circumstances, however, being content with your self-adequacy is sufficient (O’Hair, D., Wiemann, M., Mullin, D.I., & Teven, J. 2018, pg. 69). I have learned so much about communication since the first week of class choosing two is difficult. With that being said, as educators and administrators we must have the ability to actively listen, absorb information relayed to us, ask clarifying questions and continue to express our expectations. I am

realizing the importance of truly listening; listening effectively is something very few of us do, but the importance is key to effective communication. Communicating through our tone, caring demeanor and body language provides a sense of ease among children and families. I am very direct so I am learning to continuously not allow my facial expressions, body language, etc. not intimidate my staff and individuals I come in contact with daily.

Reference:

 O’Hair, D., Wiemann, M., Mullin, D. I., & Teven, J. (2018) Real communication (3^rd. ed). New York: Bedford/St. Martin’s.